Christina Lane’s essay delves into the complicated dynamics of gender expectations, particularly how women are often judged for their choices, including relationships and sexual history, through a lens of societal judgment and patriarchal standards. The piece reflects on the growing trend in online discourse where women’s autonomy and self-worth are frequently dismissed, especially when they challenge the norms imposed by the manosphere or are labeled by others based on their personal decisions. Lane presents herself as someone who has consciously rejected many men, positioning herself as a figure that defies traditional gender roles, which fuels resentment and negativity from those who maintain conventional views on relationships and women’s roles in society. Through this exploration, she touches on themes of autonomy, self-respect, and the rejection of harmful societal norms.